In some gay sex positions the top leads the action, and in some the bottom takes the lead. If you’re versatile (and we encourage you all to be), lucky you, you can do both. We’re going to look at gay sex positions from the point of view of a top and a bottom.
If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff. Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too.
Whoever said physics was boring? Anal sex positions If you’re a tall man and the guy you’re having sex with is much shorter, you’ll be able to fuck in positions that a pair of beefy fellas wouldn’t find comfortable.Īt the end of the day it’s all about angles, different levels of flexibility and being able to hold or change positions. And for once, we’re not talking about cocks. What works for you and your partner/s will depend on your shape and size. This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.īefore we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex. But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex? This seems much safer to me versus meeting someone off craigs list and having no idea what you're walking into.As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions. The thing I like about meeting guys at the steam room is that you get to size them up and get a feel for who they are and whether you click with them. Sometimes all its good for is meeting likeminded individuals and then going to a car to finish eachother off. And of course there's only so long you can hang out in the steam room before getting light headed. It can be amazing when it works out, but its usually more frustrating than anything. It's like they're sentries, relieving the other from guard duty and making sure none of us get to have any fun.
Sometimes, you wait for 20 mins until he leaves, only for another straight guy to walk in right after. Unfortunately, this is rare as there is usually always one straight guy in there at all times. There must have been at least 12 guys in there all doing stuff with each other. Once he left everyone got up and it was a decadent orgy of cock sucking and stroking. Guys were touching themselves and looking around to see if others were doing the same, but there was one guy in there who did not appear to be interested. The first time I was there it was crowded.
One in particular is well known for having a lot of action.
Even better, some have double doors so that you can hear someone come in the outer door and have time to cover yourself before they come through the second door. I had my first steam room bj in one like this which was amazing but scary now that i think about how easily I could have gotten caught.īut there are some good ones with no windows.
Depending on the setup, I will sometimes refrain from joining if the situation seems to risky, such as glass windows facing the rest of the locker room. There are a number of regular (meaning not exclusively gay) gyms in my area where action can be found in the steam room.